Get a Life

One excellent way to say, “No,” to people who think they have a right to your time is to get a life. If you are busy, people can’t readily intrude on your time. People who plan for retirement usually plan financially, but not socially. You now have time to pursue a hobby, take a trip or study a subject you’ve never had time to pursue.
Photography had always been important to my father. Upon retiring, he took a class in photography and eventually had some of his work on display at an art exhibit. My mother took up jewelry making and taught other residents at her senior apartment building to make necklaces, bracelets and earrings. One senior who had arthritis said jewelry making helped her regain some of the flexibility in her hands. Mother took macramé classes and made macramé gifts for family and friends. Now she makes and sells candy containers decorated like adorable little dolls.
One of my many pursuits is studying genealogy. The classes and workshops I’ve attended have helped me discover information on my ancestors. My goal is to learn as much as I can and to publish the results for our family’s future generations.
Finding a pursuit that pleases you may take time. Try more than one hobby or activity and enjoy this part of your life.